Excessively Queer

bis-muth:

twowandsandadrink:

stablevertigo:

What I mean when I say “I can’t do that”- Anxiety Version:

• I am unable to do that
• I am too stressed out to do that
• I cannot face the humiliation of attempting to do that
• My body will physically not allow me to do that
• I am on the verge of a panic attack
• I cannot do that

What people hear:

• I am unwilling to do that
• I am just shy
• I am overreacting
• I am lazy
• I need to get more experience in social situation to help my anxiety
• I need a push
• I don’t want to do that

Proper response to someone saying “I can’t do that” because of anxiety:

• Can I do it for you?
• Would you like my help doing it?
• Would you like to go somewhere where you feel can do that?
• Is there anything I can do to either alleviate your anxiety or help you do it?
• What about it can you not do? (And then, sub-sequentially, would you like help with that part/is there anything I can do to help with that)

these responses are literally SO important when you have anxiety

Sometimes things are really scary and if someone has confided in you that they can’t do something because of their anxiety, you should treat it as best you can

anything that goes along the lines of “I would like to help in any way I can” and away from “You are being a baby” is pretty great.

i’ve never seen this response attached to my post before!!!! thank you so much, this is an excellent addition

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7 years ago 606,788 notes

skylarks-thought-and-action:

mto-art:

Me for any underaged ships: “I Disney-Ship this.“

Disney shipping:
I love these characters together they are cute but if what they’re doing can’t be shown in a Disney movie I ain’t interested.

This is perfect. This is absolutely perfect

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7 years ago 37,200 notes

conversations with self

curtmega:

“You’re an artist. You’re a creator. You were meant to do this.”

*tries to make something*

“YOU FRAUD! SOON YOU WILL BE EXPOSED FOR THE HACK YOU REALLY ARE!”

7 years ago 45 notes

invisible-mirror:

marsixm:

lets make a new trope: gay characters who are actually seemingly impossible to kill to the point that all of their enemies are comically frustrated. functionally immortal gay characters. being gay making you immortal. unkillable gay trope.

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7 years ago 140,266 notes

405blazeitt:

i hate the trope of kids giving their favorite stuffed animal to a younger child as a sign of compassion and coming of age, as if this is something that should be expected of kids as they grow up

im 22 and i dont care who you are you’ll have to pry my ikea shark out of my cold dead hands

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7 years ago 278,576 notes

m-rbid:

*blows kiss to New Jersey* for Frank Iero

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